Deeper Wells: Know before you judge

How many times have we mistakenly counted someone out because we looked at them and compared their ability or lack thereof to someone else? Or, a better question…how many times have we done that to ourselves? Have you ever felt the weight of "failure" or "not measuring up" because you have compared yourself to someone else? Another mother? Another father? Another co-worker? We look at their success and use it as a mirror and the reflection we see staring back at us is nothing like them at all. We instantly feel that gripping feeling of failure, that voice in the back of our minds begins whispering, "you're not good enough," "look at them, you are nowhere near their level of success," et